The fact your batteries have not been changed may be the root of the problem. To be honest, your best bet is to have new fittings installed by the electrician, as the charger in each fitting may not be working properly because it's being trying to charge batteries well past their "best-by" date for some time.
Personally I'd just turn off the electricity - the fittings will stay on until the battery runs out, which is likely to be rather less than the 3hrs they should go for.
Your post #4 indicates that they are being run from their local lighting circuit, as indeed they should be. The only way to turn them off competely is to:
1. Turn off that lighting circuit
2. Open the fitting
3. Disconnect one of the connections between the battery pack and the circuit board - but take care, there is a significant voltage being generated to run the flourescent tube!
4. Preferably also disconnect the mains at the fitting - in some fittings the mains cable has a small socket which can be pulled off the circuit board (or from near it), but most use a terminal block in which case use a terminal block strip to take the ends of the mains cable.
If you do have new fittings installed, ensure your electrician leaves you the instruction sheets and carefully follow the instructions regarding routine checks of the lights and the replacement of batteries. Observance of these will ensure the minimum of problems in the future. It is also something you are required to do under the new fire safety legislation which came in in October 2006.
Hope this helps.