ellitore, you asked me to explain my comment, and then promptly launched into an attack without giving me the opportunity to explain my comment! i therefore respond to your initial question.
many are called - i refer to the many fbu officials who carry out their functions despite a constant tirade of abuse from other members with regards to their ability or sometimes even authority and willingness to be able to actually do something , yes, i can assure you many are 'called' (a variety of things!!)
few shall be chosen (callumsdads post re matt wrack) - as in carrying the poison chalice of 'higher office' (as opposed to riding very high horses) - and to be honest i sometimes wonder why they put themsleves in that position.
if you get chance to speak to maineroad, you will find that we have been in contact with each other (if it wasnt maineroad it was someone else involved - i wont place his name on here or his intitials but we have known each other for a few years and i trust and believe his version) and spoke over the phone, i tried to offer as much help and advice as i possibly could. in speaking with him i feel i did get his side/version of events, so i dont see the need to phone tamworth, but thanks for offering me the chance to ring them anyway! (its also outside of my remit and if i did so in an official capacity im sure i would soon run into a few issues internally)
i do not intend making comment over what individuals say to each other in case those comments are taken out of context. and if i had been offended seriously by what an official had said to me i would have considered making an internal issue of it?
dont forget thet the fbu actually supported you throughout those thirty years in all the issues they represented you (whether as a collective or not) - you make issue of two instances where they didnt support you, perhaps those local officials got it wrong, i know i get things wrong as an individual, what i may be surprised by is that whether the 'support' you asked for was refused by a single official or after an elected committee had reviewed your request? i dont know, perhaps they even got it right. what i do know is that as a member you have the right of appeal should representation be refused so if the correct process was followed your request for assistance was not refused as a mere whim, and should have been referred to a 'committee' - probably at regional level to take out the chance of local bias - and there must have been a reason given to you at the time. i dont want to prolong this thread by asking why it was refused but am prepared to continue our discussion privately if you so wish. whatever happened i cannot change, and i doubt if i can convince you that the proper process was followed, (again because i dont know) - all i can say is i can assure you i dont ride high horses, i get things wrong, i am prepared to admit when im wrong and i cannot defend the fbu for every decision ever made on behalf of its members - some of which i disagree with as an individual!
i apologise if you took my comment in the way that it wasnt meant to be taken, and im sorry that you feel you were let down by the fbu.
dave bev